When you set boundaries with people, you are informing the universe to return your power of story writing to you. You are ejecting a character from your story who has stolen the show, or turned it into a genre you don't want to read.
For the authors out there or anyone who has wrote a story, you may understand how characters want to write their own stories in your book. They have their own voices and desires. Some of them try to steal the show, even when it doesn't serve the story, or even when it breaks the story and as an author it is your job to stop them, or, when needed, remove them for the sake of the story's verisimilitude. Look up the phrase "Kill your darlings."
This isn't to assert that reality cannot skip, or break, or perform miracles -- that your book can't contain magic -- but that some fixture is required to maintain the coherence of the world without it falling into useless chaos. That fixture is YOU.
Your verisimilitude is your own integrity. It is your life. It is your ability to maintain your flow & happiness and ascend to a higher state of being.
As as ascendant, you should be unifying the "here" and "there" and understanding there is no difference between the physical world and the dream world. The dream world is your perception of God that is less fettered and so becomes a kind of chaotic mixture of everything that is part of your story that is coming & going.
This article will not be about dreams, but the better you understand yourself and can "distill" yourself out of your dreams, the better you can figure out what is yours and what is not.
And in this understanding you should understand there is no conventional reality that unfolds outside of your own experience -- just a kind of eternal battle of terms & conditions, or figuring out the spatial & time coordinates of your next destination from where and only there you have an "experience."
That doesn't mean that the universe isn't unfolding in what is